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I am still amazed at the amount of Christian charity [Wellesley] stuck us all with, a kind of glazed politeness in the face of boredom and stupidity. Tolerance, in the worst sense of the word. How marvelous it would have been to go to a women's college that encouraged impoliteness, that rewarded aggression, that encouraged argument.
Nora Ephron
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote critiques superficial politeness and advocates for more genuine, aggressive discourse in educational settings.

Nora Ephron's quote expresses frustration with the veneer of politeness she encountered at Wellesley College, suggesting that such behavior stifles meaningful debate and authenticity. She longs for a learning environment that rewards assertiveness and critical engagement rather than forcing students to conform to a culture of bland tolerance, emphasizing the value of robust discussion and debate in educational contexts.

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Example use cases

In a speech to students about the importance of critical thinking, one might use this quote to highlight the need for open debate.

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