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I had a strong sudden instinct that I must be alone. I didn’t want to see any people at all. I had seen so many people all my life -- I was an average mixer, but more than average in a tendency to identify myself, my ideas, my destiny, with those of all classes that came in contact with. I was always saving or being saved -- in a single morning I would go through the emotions ascribable to Wellington at Waterloo. I lived in a world of inscrutable hostiles and inalienable friends and supporters.
F. Scott Fitzgerald
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What this quote means

The quote reflects a deep need for solitude amidst the complexities of social interactions and personal identity.

In this quote, F. Scott Fitzgerald expresses a strong desire for solitude, stemming from the weight of social connections and a propensity to merge his identity with the people around him. He describes a tumultuous emotional landscape where he oscillates between feeling supported and feeling like he is constantly in conflict with the world, leading him to seek a retreat from social engagements in order to reclaim his own sense of self and peace.

Themes

SolitudeIdentitySocialEmotionsSelf-Reflection

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Example use cases

Using this quote in a speech about the importance of self-care and taking time for oneself.

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