Forgiving does not erase the bitter past. A healed memory is not a deleted memory.
Lewis B. SmedesRead
Texting has definitely improved the communication between the deaf and hearing communities, but it shouldn't be... a substitute for learning the language to really connect with someone, especially someone you want to date or have a relationship with.
Interpretation
Texting helps bridge communication gaps, but it's essential to learn the language for deeper connections.
Millicent Simmonds emphasizes the importance of not relying solely on texting to communicate, especially in relationships. While technology allows for easier interaction between deaf and hearing individuals, true connection requires a deeper understanding and learning of the language, which fosters more meaningful relationships.
In practice
During a workshop on improving communication skills, this quote was shared to highlight the importance of understanding languages in relationships.
Forgiving does not erase the bitter past. A healed memory is not a deleted memory.
Men are all the same, they think that because they came out of the belly of a woman they know all there is to know about women.
A man's presence suggests what he is capable of doing to you or for you. By contrast, a woman's presence... defines what can and cannot be done to her.
"I hate you." My sister said it different than she said it to my dad. She meant it with me.She really did. "I love you," was all I could say in return. "You're a freak, you know that? Everyone says so. They always have." "I'm trying not to be.” Then, I turned around and walked to my room and closed my door and put my head under my pillow and let the quiet put things where they are supposed to be.
Compassion is the basis of all truthful relationship: it means being present with love-for ourselves and for all life, including animals, fish, birds, and trees. Compassion is bringing our deepest truth into our actions, no matter how much the world seems to resist, because that is ultimately what we have to give this world and one another.
I've never had very high regard for therapists. I owe my health, my mental survival, to my friends and loved ones.
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