I'm sad to report that in the past few years, ever since uncertainty became our insistent 21st century companion, leadership has taken a great leap backwards to the familiar territory of command and control.
Margaret J. WheatleyRead
Our willingness to acknowledge that we only see half the picture creates the conditions that make us more attractive to others. The more sincerely we acknowledge our need for their different insights and perspectives, the more they will be magnetized to join us.
Interpretation
Recognizing our own limitations makes us more appealing and fosters deeper connections with others.
This quote emphasizes the importance of humility and openness in relationships. By admitting that our understanding is incomplete and valuing the diverse insights of others, we create a welcoming environment that attracts collaboration and deeper connections. The act of acknowledging our need for different perspectives not only enriches our interactions but also encourages others to engage with us more fully.
In practice
In a team meeting, you might say this quote to emphasize the importance of diverse viewpoints.
I'm sad to report that in the past few years, ever since uncertainty became our insistent 21st century companion, leadership has taken a great leap backwards to the familiar territory of command and control.
In our daily life, we encounter people who are angry, deceitful, intent only on satisfying their own needs. There is so much anger, distrust, greed, and pettiness that we are losing our capacity to work well together.
Even though worker capacity and motivation are destroyed when leaders choose power over productivity, it appears that bosses would rather be in control than have the organization work well.
They have eliminated rigidity, both physical and psychological, in order to support more fluid processes whereby temporary teams are created to deal with specific and ever-changing needs. They have simplified roles into minimal categories; they have knocked down walls and created workplaces where people, ideas, and information circulate freely.
It's not differences that divide us. It's our judgments about each other that do.
Perseverance is a choice. It's not a simple, one-time choice, it's a daily one. There's never a final decision.
If women believed in their husbands they would be a good deal happier and also a good deal more foolish.
Be polite to all, but intimate with few.
I used to think a wedding was a simple affair. Boy and girl meet, they fall in love, he buys a ring, she buys a dress, they say I do. I was wrong. That's getting married. A wedding is an entirely different proposition.
She is like all the rest of them. Whether they are seventeen or fortyseven, when they finally come to surrender completely, it's going to be in words.
But it's amazing how many people think that gay men should slink off into the shadows when it comes to having friendships with children.
As you get older you have more respect and empathy for your parents. Now I have a great relationship with both of them.
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