It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
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My theory is that many of the things that move us are things we long for but find hard to do.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the deep desires within us that often feel unattainable.
Alain De Botton suggests that many aspects of life that evoke strong emotions in us are tied to our aspirations and yearnings, particularly those that we perceive as difficult or challenging to achieve. This perspective highlights the intrinsic relationship between our desires and the emotional responses they elicit, serving as a reminder of the complexities of human longing and ambition.
Themes
LongingDesireEmotionAmbitionHuman Experience
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech to encourage personal growth.
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