Love, experienced thus, is a constant challenge; it is not a resting place, but a moving, growing, working together; even whether there is harmony or conflict; joy or sadness, is secondary to the fundamental fact that two people experience themselves from the essence of their existence, that they are only one with each other by being one with themselves, rather than by fleeing from themselves.
Thus, the ultimate choice for a man, inasmuch as he is driven to transcend himself, is to create or to destroy, to love or to hate.
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What this quote means
Human beings have the power to either uplift themselves and others through love and creation or to bring about negativity through hate and destruction.
This quote by Erich Fromm discusses the nature of human choice and existence. It suggests that at the core of being human is the drive to transcend one's own limitations, which can lead to two fundamental paths: the path of creation, characterized by love and positive contribution, or the path of destruction, marked by hate and negativity. Fromm emphasizes that these choices define our humanity and impact both ourselves and the world around us.
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Example use cases
In a speech about personal empowerment, I might say, 'As Erich Fromm reminds us, we have the ultimate choice to create or to destroy.'
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