Love, experienced thus, is a constant challenge; it is not a resting place, but a moving, growing, working together; even whether there is harmony or conflict; joy or sadness, is secondary to the fundamental fact that two people experience themselves from the essence of their existence, that they are only one with each other by being one with themselves, rather than by fleeing from themselves.
In the nineteenth century the problem was that God is dead. In the twentieth century the problem is that man is dead.
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What this quote means
The quote suggests a shift in existential concerns from the absence of divine guidance to the human condition itself.
Erich Fromm's quote highlights a significant philosophical evolution over two centuries. In the nineteenth century, the death of God represented a spiritual crisis, questioning the existence of a higher power and the meaning of life. However, in the twentieth century, the focus shifts to humanity itself, suggesting that individuals feel lost, disconnected, or spiritually dead due to existential despair, loss of purpose, or societal issues. This reflects a deeper examination of human existence and highlights the necessity of finding meaning beyond traditional beliefs.
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Example use cases
During a philosophy lecture, one could use this quote to discuss shifts in existential thought.
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