It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as 'doing nothing'.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote suggests that society undervalues contemplation and reflection, viewing them as inactivity.
Alain De Botton's quote critiques the common perception that simply sitting and thinking is unproductive or useless. He points out that this 'doing nothing' is often a necessary cognitive process that can foster creativity, insight, and deeper understanding, thereby revealing the importance of mental space and reflection in our busy lives.
Themes
ThinkingContemplationReflectionDoing NothingPhilosophy
In practice
Example use cases
In a seminar on the importance of mindfulness, this quote can highlight the value of taking time to think.
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