The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
Interpretation
True independence of thought is reflected in our ability to value others based on their character, regardless of their feelings towards us.
This quote by Sydney J. Harris highlights the importance of independent judgment in social interactions. It suggests that genuine wisdom and self-awareness allow us to form opinions based on merit and character rather than being swayed by how others feel about us, illustrating a profound depth of understanding and objectivity in relationships. To truly appreciate someone who may not reciprocate our admiration, or to critique someone who does, reflects our ability to remain true to our values and beliefs.
In practice
In a speech on personal growth, one might use this quote to emphasize the importance of moral integrity.
A person is either himself or not himself; is either rooted in his existence or is a fabrication; has either found his humanhood or is still playing with masks and roles and status symbols. And nobody is more aware of this difference (although unconsciously) than a child. Only an authentic person can evoke a good response in the core of the other person; only person is resonant to person.
We evaluate others with a Godlike justice, but we want them to evaluate us with a Godlike compassion.
The commonest fallacy among women is that simply having children makes them a mother - which is as absurd as believing that having a piano makes one a musician.
Man's unique agony as a species consists in his perpetual conflict between the desire to stand out and the need to blend in.
"Terrorism" is what we call the violence of the weak, and we condemn it; "war" is what we call the violence of the strong, and we glorify it.
At it's highest level, the purpose of teaching is not to teachβit is to inspire the desire for learning. Once a student's mind is set on fire, it will find a way to provide its own fuel.
Chaos is inherent in all compounded things. Strive on with diligence.
'Smart growth' destroys the environment. 'Dumb growth' destroys the environment. The only difference is that 'smart growth' does it with good taste. It's like booking passage on the Titanic. Whether you go first-class or steerage, the result is the same.
We know that God is everywhere; but certainly we feel His presence most when His works are on the grandest scale spread before us; and it is in the unclouded night-sky, where His worlds wheel their silent course, that we read clearest His infinitude, His omnipotence, His omnipresence.
The world makes us look towards ourselves, our possessions, our desires.The Gospel invites us to be open to others, to share with the poor.
The empty blue sky of space says 'All this comes back to me, then goes again, and comes back again, then goes again, and I don't care, it still belongs to me
There's a safety in thinking in a diner. You can have your coffee or your milkshake, and you can go off into strange dark areas, and always come back to the safety of the diner.
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