In a society where the roles everyone plays are obvious, the refusal to conform to any standard will excite interest. Be both masculine and feminine, impudent and charming, subtle and outrageous. Let other people worry about being socially acceptable; those types are a dime a dozen, and you are after a power greater than they can imagine.
Most of us enter adult life with great ambitions for how we will start our own ventures, but the harshness of life wears us down. We settle into some job and slowly give in to the illusion that our bosses care about us and our future, that they spend time thinking of our welfare.
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What this quote means
This quote highlights the disillusionment many people face as they transition into adulthood and the workforce.
Robert Greene's quote reflects the common journey of individuals who, filled with youthful ambition, often find themselves disheartened by the realities of adult life and employment. As they embark on their careers, the idealistic dreams of entrepreneurship or personal fulfillment can be overshadowed by the mundane nature of jobs that may lack genuine concern for their well-being. This transition exposes the stark contrast between youthful aspirations and the often harsh and uninspiring conditions of corporate life, leading many to settle into routines rather than pursue their original dreams.
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During a motivational speaking event about career paths.
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