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Vanity plays lurid tricks with our memory, and the truth of every passion wants some pretence to make it live.
Joseph Conrad
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Vanity distorts our memories and emotions, requiring a facade for them to exist meaningfully.

In this quote, Joseph Conrad suggests that our egos can distort the recollection of our feelings and desires, creating an illusion of authenticity. Without some form of pretension or embellishment, our passions might struggle to endure in memory, revealing how vanity can intertwine with our truths and perceptions.

Themes

VanityMemoryTruthPassionPretence

In practice

Example use cases

In a psychology seminar when discussing how biases affect memories.

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