It is not enough that your designs, nay that your actions, are intrinsically good, you must take care they shall appear so.
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It is well known to all great men, that by conferring an obligation they do not always procure a friend, but are certain of creating many enemies.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Doing favors for others doesn't guarantee friendship and may lead to resentment.
This quote by Henry Fielding highlights the complex nature of human relationships, emphasizing that offering help or doing good deeds may not always lead to positive outcomes, such as friendship. Instead, it can result in enmity or resentment, as people may feel indebted or discontented, illustrating the delicate balance of social interactions and the consequences of our actions.
Themes
ObligationFriendshipEnemiesRelationshipsActions
In practice
Example use cases
During a discussion about the challenges of helping friends, one might cite this quote to illustrate the potential risks involved.
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