Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
Joyce Carol OatesRead
Why should I want what's good for me?' Beatrice asked him, smiling. 'Is that what you want for yourself - only what's good for you?
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote questions the notion of self-interest and encourages selflessness.
In this quote, Beatrice challenges the idea that one should solely seek personal benefit. It suggests a deeper contemplation on human desires and motivations, implying that caring for others and considering the common good could be more fulfilling than pursuing mere self-interest.
Themes
SelflessnessSelf-InterestPhilosophyCareMotivation
In practice
Example use cases
During a team meeting, you could use this quote to emphasize the importance of collaboration over individual gain.
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