Be willing to have it so. Acceptance of what has happened is the first step to overcoming the consequences of any misfortune.
Interpretation
Acceptance of reality is crucial for healing and moving forward from misfortunes.
This quote by William James emphasizes the importance of accepting the reality of our situations, particularly when faced with misfortune. By acknowledging what has happened, we can begin the process of overcoming the negative consequences and move towards recovery and growth. Acceptance is portrayed not as resignation, but as the necessary first step toward empowerment and change.
In practice
This quote can be shared in a motivational speech to encourage resilience in the face of challenges.
Many persons nowadays seem to think that any conclusion must be very scientific if the arguments in favor of it are derived from twitching of frogs' legs (especially if the frogs are decapitated) and that, on the other hand, any doctrine chiefly vouched for by the feelings of human beings (with heads on their shoulders) must be benighted and superstitious.
The man who knows governments most completely is he who troubles himself least about a definition which shall give their essence. Enjoying an intimate acquaintance with all their particularities in turn, he would naturally regard an abstract conception in which these were unified as a thing more misleading than enlightening.
All the higher, more penetrating ideals are revolutionary. They present themselves far less in the guise of effects of past experience than in that of probable causes of future experience, factors to which the environment and the lessons it has so far taught us must learn to bend.
The lunatic's visions of horror are all drawn from the material of daily fact. Our civilization is founded on the shambles, and every individual existence goes out in a lonely spasm of helpless agony.
It is astonishing how many mental operations we can explain when we have once grasped the principles of association
As there is no worse lie than a truth misunderstood by those who hear it, so reasonable arguments, challenges to magnanimity, and appeals to sympathy or justice, are folly when we are dealing with human crocodiles and boa-constrictors.
And our wise Father in heaven knows when we're going to need things too. Don't run out ahead of Him.
If we begin to get in touch with whatever we feel with some kind of kindness, our protective shells will melt, and we'll find that more areas of our lives are workable. AS we learn to have compassion for ourselves, the circle of compassion for others-what and whom we can work with, and how-becomes wider.
A remark generally hurts in proportion to its truth.
Of all the things that can have an effect on your future, I believe personal growth is the greatest.
It takes great self-confidence to write a newspaper column. Some might say it takes arrogance. Be that as it may, my willingness to pronounce on a great many matters of which I have little or no knowledge is one of my prime qualifications for this trade.
How few things can a man measure with the tape of his understanding ; How many greater things might he be seeing in the meanwhile.
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