Win through your actions, never through argument.
Interpretation
Actions speak louder than words, and true success comes from demonstrating rather than debating.
In this quote, Robert Greene emphasizes the importance of action over mere discussion or argument. He suggests that rather than trying to win through verbal disputes, individuals should focus on proving their points through tangible results and actions that showcase their beliefs or capabilities. This perspective encourages a more constructive approach to conflict and competition, where achieving goals becomes paramount.
In practice
During a team meeting, you can say this quote to emphasize the importance of delivering results over just discussing ideas.
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When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control. Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open-ended, and sphinxlike.
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Envy and greed starve on a steady diet of thanksgiving.
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When people do not ignore what they should ignore, but ignore what they should not ignore, this is known as ignorance.
Your temperament is what you write with, but it's also how you deal with the world.
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