It is wise to direct your anger towards problems - not people; to focus your energies on answers - not excuses.
William Arthur WardRead
Within seconds thoughts become words that slip off our tongue and into the world. Pausing before we speak may seem cumbersome, but it allows us to decide: Is this helpful? Does this need to be said now? What is the best way to say this?
Interpretation
What this quote means
Thoughts transform into words quickly, and taking a moment to pause can enhance the impact of what we say.
This quote emphasizes the importance of being mindful before speaking. It suggests that our thoughts rapidly become words, and by pausing to consider the helpfulness, timing, and delivery of our words, we can communicate more effectively and thoughtfully, ultimately leading to better interactions and understanding.
Themes
ThoughtsWordsPauseCommunicationMindfulness
In practice
Example use cases
During a team meeting, I paused before voicing my opinion to ensure it was constructive.
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