Once I lived in time as a fish in water, breathing it, drinking it, sustained by it. Now I kill time and time kills me.
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Words are coin. Words alienate. Language is no medium for desire. Desire is rapture, not exchange.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Words have the power to create distance between people, as they fail to convey deep desires and emotions.
In this quote, J. M. Coetzee suggests that language, while a tool for communication, often fails to capture the intensity of human desires. He implies that words can create barriers, making true emotional connections difficult, as they reduce personal experience to mere exchange rather than genuine understanding or connection.
Themes
LanguageDesireCommunicationWordsAlienationPhilosophyConnection
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a discussion about the limitations of verbal communication in relationships.
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