QuoteProject
We talked, she and I. She asked about my work and it was a pretense, she was not interested in my work. And when I answered, it was a pretense. I was not interested in my work either. There was only one thing that interested us, and she knew it. She had made it plain by her coming.
John Fante
ShareWTF𝕏

Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote reflects the pretense in conversations where true feelings and interests lie beneath surface interactions.

In this quote, John Fante illustrates the complexity of human connections, where the characters engage in a superficial dialogue about work while both are actually more captivated by their mutual attraction. This highlights the often unspoken themes of desire and emotional honesty, suggesting that genuine feelings can sometimes underpin seemingly trivial exchanges.

Themes

LoveConnectionPretenseInterestConversation

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be used in a discussion about relationships to illustrate how people sometimes hide their true feelings.

More from John Fante

For your information, a good novel can change the world. Keep that in mind before you attempt to sit down at a typewriter. Never waste time on something you don't believe in yourself.
John FanteRead
Listen closely. There’s a remote possibility that you might learn something: First, I don’t give a damn if my work is commercial or not…I’m the writer. If what I write is good, then people will read it. That’s why literature exists. An author puts his heart and guts on the page. For your information, a good novel can change the world. Keep that in mind before you attempt to sit down at a typewriter. Never waste time on something you don’t believe in yourself.
John FanteRead
Arturo Bandini: -What does happiness mean to you Camilla? Camilla: -That you can fall in love with whoever you want to, and not feel ashamed of it.
John FanteRead
Ah, Evelyn and Vivian, I love you both, I love you for your sad lives, the empty misery of your coming home at dawn. You too are alone, but you are not like Arturo Bandini, who is neither fish, fowl nor good red herring. So have your champagne, because I love you both, and you too, Vivian, even if your mouth looks like it had been dug out with raw fingernails and your old child's eyes swim in blood written like mad sonnets.
John FanteRead
Ask the dust on the road! Ask the Joshua trees standing alone where the Mojave begins. Ask them about Camilla Lopez, and they will whisper her name.
John FanteRead

Similar quotes

I don't really need to stand out, there's room for everyone. Although I haven't built a niche yet, I'm just writing love songs.
AdeleRead
Even more than we want good love for ourselves, we want it for our children, those vulnerable satellites of our hearts that we send, unsteady, into the world.
Mona SimpsonRead
It was a million tiny little things that, when you added them all up, they meant we were supposed to be together ... and I knew it.
Tom HanksRead
Love is a binding force, by which another is joined to me and cherished by myself.
Thomas AquinasRead
When it comes to love, compassion, and other feelings of the heart, I am rich.
Muhammad AliRead
But I,_x000D_ from poetry's skies,_x000D_ plunge into communism,_x000D_ because_x000D_ without it_x000D_ I feel no love.
Vladimir MayakovskyRead

A little wisdom, now and then

Subscribe for the occasional hand-picked quote. No noise.