For your information, a good novel can change the world. Keep that in mind before you attempt to sit down at a typewriter. Never waste time on something you don't believe in yourself.
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We talked, she and I. She asked about my work and it was a pretense, she was not interested in my work. And when I answered, it was a pretense. I was not interested in my work either. There was only one thing that interested us, and she knew it. She had made it plain by her coming.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects the pretense in conversations where true feelings and interests lie beneath surface interactions.
In this quote, John Fante illustrates the complexity of human connections, where the characters engage in a superficial dialogue about work while both are actually more captivated by their mutual attraction. This highlights the often unspoken themes of desire and emotional honesty, suggesting that genuine feelings can sometimes underpin seemingly trivial exchanges.
Themes
LoveConnectionPretenseInterestConversation
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a discussion about relationships to illustrate how people sometimes hide their true feelings.
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