In a society where the roles everyone plays are obvious, the refusal to conform to any standard will excite interest. Be both masculine and feminine, impudent and charming, subtle and outrageous. Let other people worry about being socially acceptable; those types are a dime a dozen, and you are after a power greater than they can imagine.
In the world today, we humans have become more self-absorbed, more tribal and tenacious in holding on to our narrow agendas; we have become consumed by the barrage of information inundating us; we are even more fickle when it comes to leaders.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote highlights how humanity has become increasingly self-centered and polarized, overwhelmed by information, and inconsistent in our trust of leaders.
Robert Greene's quote reflects on the contemporary state of human behavior, pointing out a troubling trend of self-absorption and tribalism in society. He suggests that as we are bombarded with information, we tend to cling to our own agendas and become more critical and unstable in our expectations of leadership. This observation encourages a moment of introspection regarding how our values and perspectives may be shifting in an age defined by information overload and division.
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In practice
Example use cases
During a seminar on leadership, to emphasize the importance of genuine connection, you might reference this quote.
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