We start making every child ambitious, and ambition means you cannot love; ambition is anti-love. Ambition needs fight, ambition needs struggle, ambition needs you to use others as a means.
To be unattached is not to renounce the world. If you renounce the world you are attached to the world; otherwise why should you renounce it? What is the point in renouncing it if you are not attached to it? Only attachment renounces. If you are really non-attached there is no question of any renunciation.
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What this quote means
True non-attachment means not having to renounce anything; true freedom comes from not being attached to worldly things.
In this quote, Rajneesh explores the concept of attachment and non-attachment, suggesting that the act of renouncing the world is, in itself, a form of attachment. He argues that genuine non-attachment does not require one to give up worldly concerns or things but rather involves a state of being where one can engage with the world without clinging to it. Therefore, true freedom comes from understanding oneself and one's relationship with the world, allowing for a natural interaction without the need for renunciation.
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Example use cases
During a discussion on minimalism at a community event, this quote can be used to explain the difference between physical renunciation and emotional detachment.
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