If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
When asked how she knows when her writing is where she wants it to be: "I know when it's the best I can do. It may not be the best there is. Another writer may do it much better. But I know when it's the best I can do. I know that one of the great arts that the writer develops is the art of saying, 'No. No, I'm finished. Bye.' And leaving it alone. I will not write it into the ground. I will not write the life out of it. I won't do that."
Interpretation
What this quote means
It's about recognizing one's creative limits and knowing when to stop refining a work.
Maya Angelou emphasizes the importance of knowing when a piece of writing has reached its full potential, even if it may not be perfect or the best in existence. She highlights a crucial aspect of the creative process: the ability to step back and declare a work finished, avoiding the trap of overworking or exhausting the life out of the art.
Themes
WritingCreativityArtPerfectionCompletionProcess
In practice
Example use cases
When giving a workshop on writing, one could use this quote to inspire participants to find their own balance in the creative process.
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