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I think I lived those years very impersonally. It was almost as though I had erected someone outside myself who was the president's wife. I was lost somewhere deep down inside myself. That is the way I felt and worked until I left the White House.
Eleanor Roosevelt
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What this quote means

Eleanor Roosevelt expresses a sense of disconnection from her true self during her time as First Lady, feeling like a separate entity rather than an individual.

Eleanor Roosevelt reflects on her experiences as the First Lady, conveying a profound sense of isolation and loss of identity. She suggests that her public persona as the president's wife overshadowed her true self, leaving her feeling estranged from her own emotions and desires. This disconnection points to the pressures of public life and the challenges of balancing personal identity with societal expectations.

Themes

IdentitySelfLeadershipIsolationPublic LifePersonal

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Example use cases

In a leadership seminar discussing the importance of authenticity in public service.

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