Neither loss of father, nor loss of mother, dear as she was to Mr Thornton, could have poisoned the remembrance of the weeks, the days, the hours, when a walk of two miles, every step of which was pleasant, as it brought him nearer and nearer to her, took him to her sweet presence - every step of which was rich, as each recurring moment that bore him away from her made him recal some fresh grace in her demeanour, or pleasant pungency in her character.
Yes! He knew how she would love. He had not loved her without gaining that instinctive knowledge of what capabilities were in her. Her soul would walk in glorious sunlight if any man was worthy, by his power of loving, to win back her love.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the understanding and depth of love that comes from knowing someone's true potential for love.
In this quote, Elizabeth Gaskell reflects on the profound connection between two lovers, highlighting that true love is not just about feelings but also about understanding and recognizing each other's capabilities and worth. The speaker acknowledges that the woman possesses a deep capacity for love that can be awakened by the right man who appreciates and reciprocates her emotions, suggesting that love has the power to bring out the best in individuals when it is genuine and mutual.
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Example use cases
In a wedding speech, one might use this quote to describe the couple's deep understanding of each other.
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Mr. Thornton felt that in this influx no one was speaking to Margaret, and was restless under this apparent neglect. But he never went near her himself; he did not look at her. Only, he knew what she was doing — or not doing — better than anyone else in the room. Margaret was so unconscious of herself, and so much amused by watching other people, that she never thought whether she was left unnoticed or not.
Well, He had known what love was-a sharp pang, a fierce experience, in the midst of whose flames he was struggling! but, through that furnace he would fight his way out into the serenity of middle age,-all the richer and more human for having known this great passion.
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