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The young woman was crying, in the way that grownups cry, keeping it inside as much as they can, and hating it when it still pushes out at the edges, making them ugly and funny-looking on the way.
Neil Gaiman
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What this quote means

This quote illustrates the struggle of adults to manage their emotions, often leading to moments of vulnerability that are seen as unattractive.

Neil Gaiman's quote reflects the nuanced way in which adults express their feelings, emphasizing the conflict between internal struggles and external expressions. It suggests that as people grow older, they learn to suppress their emotions, which can create a sense of discomfort and even humor when those hidden feelings unexpectedly reveal themselves. The mention of 'ugly and funny-looking' evokes the idea that vulnerability can be perceived as awkward, yet it remains an essential part of the human experience.

Themes

EmotionCryingVulnerabilityAdulthoodStruggles

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about mental health, this quote can highlight the importance of expressing emotions.

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