With the beginning of life, comes the thirst for truth, whereas the ability to lie is gradually acquired in the process of trying to stay alive.
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If you're not perfectly conscious of yourself, that self can be tyrannical; in relationship to others, anyone can become a tyrant. That's why no one can be a Superman. You have to go beyond yourself with a 'third eye' - self-awareness - because the one thing you cannot flee is yourself.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Self-awareness is crucial to avoid becoming tyrannical in relationships with others.
In this quote, Gao Xingjian emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in preventing our darker impulses from dominating our interactions with others. He warns that without a conscious understanding of ourselves, we risk becoming tyrants, affecting our relationships negatively, and suggests that true strength lies in transcending one's ego and cultivating a deeper insight into oneself, hence the notion of employing a 'third eye.'
Themes
Self-AwarenessTyrannyRelationshipsEgoWisdom
In practice
Example use cases
In a leadership workshop, this quote can be used to highlight the importance of self-awareness in effective leadership.
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