Show me someone who never gossips, and I will show you someone who is not interested in people.
Barbara WaltersRead
When you're interviewing someone, you're in control. When you're being interviewed, you think you're in control, but you're not.
Interpretation
The dynamics of control shift between the interviewer and the interviewee, revealing a deeper truth about power in conversations.
This quote by Barbara Walters highlights the inherent power dynamics present during interviews. While the interviewer holds the authority to guide the conversation and make decisions, the interviewee often believes they are steering the dialogue, which can create a complex interplay of perceived control. Understanding this dynamic is crucial for both parties during an interview.
In practice
Using this quote during a workshop on effective interview techniques.
Show me someone who never gossips, and I will show you someone who is not interested in people.
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