If a mother respects both herself and her child from his very first day onward, she will never need to teach him respect for others..

It is not true that evil, destructiveness , and perversion inevitably form part of human existence, no matter how often this is maintained. But it is….

The achievement of freedom is hardly possible without the felt mourning. This ability to mourn, i.e, to give up the illusion of a happy childhood, ca….

Wherever I look, I see signs of the commandment to honor one's parents and nowhere of a commandment that calls for the respect of a child..

We can never do the right thing as long as we are out to please someone else..

Courage can be just as infectious as fear..

Many people suffer all their lives from this oppressive feeling of guilt, the sense of not having lived up to their parents' expectations. This feeli….

If we do not work on all three levels -- body, feeling, mind -- the symptoms of our distress will keep returning, as the body goes on repeating the s….

We don't yet know, above all, what the world might be like if children were to grow up without being subjected to humiliation, if parents would respe….

People whose integrity has not been damaged in childhood, who were protected, respected, and treated with honesty by their parents, will be-both in t….

The truth about our childhood is stored up in our body, and although we can repress it, we can never alter it. Our intellect can be deceived, our fee….

someday we will regard our children not as creatures to manipulate or to change but rather as messengers from a world we once deeply knew, but which ….

The true opposite of depression is not gaiety or absence of pain, but vitality: the freedom to experience spontaneous feelings..

For the human soul is virtually indestructible, and its ability to rise from the ashes remains as long as the body draws breath..

An unacknowledged trauma is like a wound that never heals over and may start to bleed again at any time..

I have never known a patient to portray his parents more negatively than he actually experienced them in childhood but always more positively--becaus….

Those children who are beaten will in turn give beatings, those who are intimidated will be intimidating, those who are humiliated will impose humili….

It was not the beautiful or pleasant feelings that gave me new insight, but the ones against which I fought most strongly: feelings that made me expe….

Problems cannot be solved with words, but only through experience..

In the short term, corporal punishment may produce obedience. But it is a fact documented by research that in the long term the results are inability….

That probably greatest of narcissistic wounds -- not to have been loved just as one truly was -- cannot heal without the work of mourning..