If people start to buy the idea that machines are great companions for the elderly or for children, as they increasingly seem to do, we are really playing with fire.
Sherry TurkleRead
If we're not able to be alone, we're going to be more lonely. And if we don't teach our children to be alone, they're only going to know how to be lonely.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The ability to be comfortable alone is essential to prevent feelings of loneliness, both for ourselves and in teaching our children.
Sherry Turkle suggests that the skill of enjoying one's own company is crucial for mental well-being. When individuals rely solely on others for company, they may struggle with feelings of loneliness, and if children aren't taught the value of solitude, they might grow up feeling isolated and lonely without understanding how to appreciate their own company.
Themes
LonelinessSolitudeChildrenRelationshipsSelf-Awareness
In practice
Example use cases
In a seminar on mental health, you might quote Turkle to emphasize the importance of teaching children self-reliance.
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The feeling that 'no one is listening to me' make us want to spend time with machines that seem to care about us.
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