If people start to buy the idea that machines are great companions for the elderly or for children, as they increasingly seem to do, we are really playing with fire.
Sherry TurkleRead
We are inhibited from aggression by the presence of another face, another person. We're aware that we're with a human being. On the Internet, we are disinhibited from taking into full account that we are in the presence of another human being.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote highlights how face-to-face interactions inhibit aggressive behavior, whereas online interactions can lead to disinhibition.
Sherry Turkle emphasizes the importance of physical presence in moderating our behavior, particularly aggression. She suggests that in face-to-face interactions, we are more conscious of our actions and their impact on others, while the anonymity of the Internet can lead to a lack of empathy and inhibition, resulting in more aggressive or inappropriate behaviors. This disparity illustrates how context and familiarity with another person can shape our moral and social conduct.
Themes
AggressionInternetDisinhibitionHuman BehaviorPresence
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about online bullying, one might refer to this quote to illustrate the difference in behavior in digital spaces compared to physical interactions.
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