If you give appreciation to people, you win their goodwill. But more important than that, practicing this philosophy has made a different person of me.
Interpretation
Appreciating others fosters goodwill and transforms the giver.
This quote emphasizes the importance of showing appreciation to others, suggesting that such positive recognition not only builds stronger relationships but also leads to personal growth in the one who gives appreciation. William James highlights how the act of appreciating others can lead to a more meaningful and positive self-transformation, creating a ripple effect of goodwill in interpersonal interactions.
In practice
In a team meeting to boost morale and encourage collaboration, one might say, 'As William James said, if you give appreciation to people, you win their goodwill.'
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