I'm trying to broaden the scope of positive psychology well beyond the smiley face. Happiness is just one-fifth of what human beings choose to do.
Martin SeligmanRead
The belief that we can rely on shortcuts to happiness, joy, rapture, comfort, and ecstasy, rather than be entitled to these feelings by the exercise of personal strengths and virtues, leads to legions of people who, in the middle of great wealth, are starving spiritually.
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What this quote means
True happiness comes from personal growth and virtues, not from shortcuts or superficial means.
This quote by Martin Seligman emphasizes that relying on quick fixes or shortcuts to achieve feelings of happiness and fulfillment can lead to a lack of genuine spiritual well-being. Instead of feeling entitled to happiness without effort, individuals should cultivate their personal strengths and virtues to experience deeper, lasting joy and contentment, even in the presence of material wealth.
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HappinessVirtuesPersonal GrowthSpiritualityShortcuts
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Use this quote in a motivational speech about personal development.
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