One of my worries about America is the epidemic of depression we've been in. One of the possibilities about that is that the 'I' gets bigger and bigger, and the 'we' gets smaller and smaller.
Martin SeligmanRead
I'm trying to broaden the scope of positive psychology well beyond the smiley face. Happiness is just one-fifth of what human beings choose to do.
Interpretation
This quote emphasizes that happiness is only a small part of a broader approach to positive psychology.
Martin Seligman highlights that while happiness is a significant aspect of human experience, it only represents a fraction of the potential elements that contribute to a fulfilling life. By advocating for a broader perspective on positive psychology, he encourages the exploration of various dimensions of well-being beyond merely pursuing happiness.
In practice
During a workshop on mental health, I referenced this quote to illustrate that happiness is part of a larger picture of well-being.
One of my worries about America is the epidemic of depression we've been in. One of the possibilities about that is that the 'I' gets bigger and bigger, and the 'we' gets smaller and smaller.
The dirty little secret of both clinical psychology and biological psychiatry is that they have completely given up on the notion of cure.
The belief that we can rely on shortcuts to happiness, joy, rapture, comfort, and ecstasy, rather than be entitled to these feelings by the exercise of personal strengths and virtues, leads to legions of people who, in the middle of great wealth, are starving spiritually.
I believe psychology has done very well in working out how to understand and treat disease. But I think that is literally half-baked. If all you do is work to fix problems, to alleviate suffering, then by definition you are working to get people to zero, to neutral.
The good life is using your signature strengths every day to produce authentic happiness and abundant gratification.
Perhaps the single most robust fact across many surveys is that married people are happier than anyone else.
If you're in a position where you can help other people, there is nothing better in life than helping other people. Happy Thanksgiving, everybody!
If I can bring joy into the world, if I can get people to stop thinking about their pain for a moment, or the fact the tomorrow morning they're going to get up and tell their boss off... then I'll be successful.
[When] he's here, he's always reading. He says books stop time. I myself think he's crazy...Don't tell anyone, but when he reads something that he likes he gets real happy, turns on the music, and dances by himself, or with a broom sometimes.
Happiness is a sort of action.
There are days when simply seeing feels like happiness itself....You feel so rich, the elation seems almost excessive and you want to share it
It doesn't all have to be about giving money. Sometimes it's a smile that changes the life of one little kid.
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