One of my worries about America is the epidemic of depression we've been in. One of the possibilities about that is that the 'I' gets bigger and bigger, and the 'we' gets smaller and smaller.
Martin SeligmanRead
I'm trying to broaden the scope of positive psychology well beyond the smiley face. Happiness is just one-fifth of what human beings choose to do.
Interpretation
This quote emphasizes that happiness is only a small part of a broader approach to positive psychology.
Martin Seligman highlights that while happiness is a significant aspect of human experience, it only represents a fraction of the potential elements that contribute to a fulfilling life. By advocating for a broader perspective on positive psychology, he encourages the exploration of various dimensions of well-being beyond merely pursuing happiness.
In practice
During a workshop on mental health, I referenced this quote to illustrate that happiness is part of a larger picture of well-being.
One of my worries about America is the epidemic of depression we've been in. One of the possibilities about that is that the 'I' gets bigger and bigger, and the 'we' gets smaller and smaller.
The dirty little secret of both clinical psychology and biological psychiatry is that they have completely given up on the notion of cure.
The belief that we can rely on shortcuts to happiness, joy, rapture, comfort, and ecstasy, rather than be entitled to these feelings by the exercise of personal strengths and virtues, leads to legions of people who, in the middle of great wealth, are starving spiritually.
I believe psychology has done very well in working out how to understand and treat disease. But I think that is literally half-baked. If all you do is work to fix problems, to alleviate suffering, then by definition you are working to get people to zero, to neutral.
The good life is using your signature strengths every day to produce authentic happiness and abundant gratification.
Perhaps the single most robust fact across many surveys is that married people are happier than anyone else.
There are some days when I think I'm going to die from an overdose of satisfaction.
Gratitude is born in hearts that take time to count up past mercies. they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.
My whole effort is how to beautify this present moment, how to make people more celebrating, how to make people more joyous, how to give them a little glimpse of blissfulness, how to bring laughter to their life. Then the future takes care of itself. You need not think of the tomorrow, it comes. It comes out of this moment. Let this moment be of great celebration.
Continuity of purpose is one of the most essential ingredients of happiness in the long run, and for most men that comes chiefly through their work.
That man is rich whose pleasures are the cheapest.
But the rest are even scared to open up and laugh. You know, that's the first thing that got me about this place, that there wasn't anybody laughing. I haven't heard a real laugh since I came through that door, do you know that? Man, when you lose your laugh you lose your footing.
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