I'm trying to broaden the scope of positive psychology well beyond the smiley face. Happiness is just one-fifth of what human beings choose to do.
Martin SeligmanRead
The best therapists can do with sadness, anger, and anxiety is to help patients live in the more comfortable part of their set range.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Therapists help people manage their emotions by guiding them towards a more positive emotional state within their natural emotional range.
This quote by Martin Seligman highlights the role of therapists in assisting individuals in navigating their emotional experiences. It suggests that rather than eliminating feelings like sadness, anger, or anxiety, therapists work to help patients recognize and reside in a healthier, more comfortable emotional space, ultimately enhancing their overall well-being. The focus is on emotional regulation and finding balance rather than suppression of emotions.
Themes
TherapistsEmotionsSadnessAngerAnxietyPsychologyMental Health
In practice
Example use cases
In a mental health workshop, a speaker might use this quote to illustrate the importance of emotional management.
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