Artists are not cheerleaders, and we're not the heads of tourism boards. We expose and discuss what is problematic, what is contradictory, what is hurtful and what is silenced in the culture we're in.
Junot DiazRead
I seem to have to make my characters family before I can access their hearts in any way that matters.
Interpretation
Creating a familial bond with characters allows for deeper emotional connections.
Junot Diaz highlights the importance of establishing a familial relationship with characters in storytelling to unlock their emotional depth. By treating characters as family, writers can access the core of their hearts, making their narratives more poignant and relatable.
In practice
This quote can be used in a workshop about character development in writing.
Artists are not cheerleaders, and we're not the heads of tourism boards. We expose and discuss what is problematic, what is contradictory, what is hurtful and what is silenced in the culture we're in.
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