Love is - OK, it's 20 things, but it isn't 19. And I think that love reaches for something which is very, very deep in us and is very easily obscured, and is also very easily denied, which is the instinct towards the other person, other than toward the self.
There we were - demented children mincing about in clothes that no one ever wore, speaking as no man ever spoke, swearing love in wigs and rhymed couplets, killing each other with wooden swords, hollow protestations of faith hurled after empty promises of vengeance - and every gesture, every pose, vanishing into the thin unpopulated air. We ransomed our dignity to the clouds, and the uncomprehending birds listened. Don't you see?! We're actors - we're the opposite of people!
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What this quote means
The quote explores the performative nature of human existence, suggesting that people often act rather than truly engage with reality.
In this quote, Tom Stoppard reflects on the absurdity of the human condition, portraying individuals as actors in a play rather than genuine beings. He emphasizes how people often engage in pretentious behaviors and meaningless rituals, trading their true selves for acts that lack authenticity. The imagery showcases a disconnect between real feelings and theatrical expressions, suggesting that much of life is merely a performance devoid of true substance.
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During a theatrical performance discussion, to illustrate the idea of living as actors in society.
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