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For arousing compassion, the nineteenth-century yogi Patrul Rinpoche suggested imagining beings in torment - an animal about to be slaughtered, a person awaiting execution. To make it more immediate, he recommended imagining ourselves in their place. Particularly painful is his image of a mother with no arms watching as a raging river sweeps her child away. To contact the suffering of another being fully and directly is as painful as being in the woman's shoes.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of empathy by encouraging us to imagine the suffering of others as if we were in their situation.
Pema Chodron reflects on the teachings of Patrul Rinpoche, highlighting the need to deeply connect with the suffering of others to truly feel compassion. This involves using our imagination to place ourselves in the painful situations of beings in torment, thus evoking a profound understanding of their pain. The imagery presented, particularly of a mother losing her child, serves to illustrate that engaging with another's suffering can be a deeply transformative and painful experience, fostering greater empathy and compassion within ourselves.
Themes
CompassionEmpathySufferingImaginationPain
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about human rights, one might use this quote to emphasize the need for empathy towards those in suffering.
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