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[For constructive conflict,] we have to resist the neurobiological drive which means that we really prefer people mostly like ourselves.
Margaret Heffernan
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote emphasizes the need to overcome our natural bias towards similarity in order to benefit from constructive conflict.

Margaret Heffernan highlights the importance of embracing diversity in perspectives rather than gravitating towards those who resemble us in thoughts and beliefs. Constructive conflict can lead to growth and innovation, but it requires an effort to resist our innate preference for similarity and engage with differing viewpoints for a richer dialogue.

Themes

ConflictDiversityPerspectivesSimilarityEngagement

In practice

Example use cases

In a team meeting, to promote collaboration, I shared this quote to encourage everyone to voice different opinions.

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