How can any company know if its processes, products, people are safe? Only if everyone is watching and telling the truth. The first part can be assumed; the second cannot.
Margaret HeffernanRead
[For constructive conflict,] we have to resist the neurobiological drive which means that we really prefer people mostly like ourselves.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the need to overcome our natural bias towards similarity in order to benefit from constructive conflict.
Margaret Heffernan highlights the importance of embracing diversity in perspectives rather than gravitating towards those who resemble us in thoughts and beliefs. Constructive conflict can lead to growth and innovation, but it requires an effort to resist our innate preference for similarity and engage with differing viewpoints for a richer dialogue.
In practice
In a team meeting, to promote collaboration, I shared this quote to encourage everyone to voice different opinions.
How can any company know if its processes, products, people are safe? Only if everyone is watching and telling the truth. The first part can be assumed; the second cannot.
Most executives I know are so action-oriented, or action-addicted, that time for reflection is the first casualty of their success.
Once you have power, you are inevitably surrounded by people who have their own agendas and will tell you whatever advances them.
If the company depends entirely on you - your creativity, ingenuity, inspiration, salesmanship or charisma - nobody will want to buy it. The risk and the dependency are too great.
Those in powerless positions aren't about to complain about bullying bosses, abusive supervisors or corrupt co-workers. There is no safe way to do so and no process that promises redress.
Bosses and leaders everywhere should cherish the people who bring them bad news, disappointing data or hard problems.
If a girl looks swell when she meets you, who gives a damn if she's late? Nobody.
I believe that women should live for love, for motherhood and for intellect, and I believe we shouldn't have to choose. And I believe that's always been difficult for women, to express themselves intellectually, maternally, and passionately.
In general she had found that the main drawback in being a man was that conversations were less interesting.
Notice, we never pray for folks we gossip about, and we never gossip about the folk for whom we pray! For prayer is a great deterrent.
We neither of us perform to strangers.
I am convinced that the Black man will only reach his full potential when he learns to draw upon the strengths and insights of the Black woman.
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