we both fitted. If our corners were not rubbed off they were at least pulled in. But deep in us both was something that made us require more for happiness. I didn't know what I wanted
Interpretation
This quote illustrates the complexity of relationships and the innate desire for fulfillment beyond mere compatibility.
In this quote, F. Scott Fitzgerald expresses the idea that while two people may fit well together in a relationship, there remains a deeper yearning for happiness that goes beyond just being a good match. It reflects on the notion that true happiness is not merely found in compatibility, but in a shared understanding of one's desires and aspirations. The 'corners rubbed off' suggests the compromises we make in relationships, highlighting the tension between contentment and the quest for deeper fulfillment.
In practice
This quote can be used in a relationship seminar to discuss the search for deeper fulfillment in partnerships.
Don't be so anxious about it,' she laughed. 'I'm not used to being loved. I wouldn't know what to do; I never got the trick of it.' She looked down at him, shy and fatigued. 'So here we are. I told you years ago that I had the makings of Cinderella.' He took her hand; she drew it back instinctively and then replaced it in his. 'Beg your pardon. Not even used to being touched. But I'm not afraid of you, if you stay quiet and don't move suddenly.
The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function.
It was about then [1920] that I wrote a line which certain people will not let me forget: "She was a faded but still lovely woman of twenty-seven."
The words seemed to bite physically into Gatsby.
But you can love more than just one person, can't you?
A sudden gust of rain blew over them and then another - as if small liquid clouds were bouncing along the land. Lightning entered the sea far off and the air blew full of crackling thunder. The table cloths blew around the pillars. They blew and blew and blew. The flags twisted around the red chairs like live things, the banners were ragged, the corners of the table tore off through the burbling billowing ends of the cloths.
When you start supporting a football club, you don't support it because of the trophies, or a player, or history, you support it because you found yourself somewhere there; found a place where you belong.
She knew now that marriage did not make love. Janie’s first dream was dead, so she became a woman.
You can't organize people if you don't love them. And however hard it can be to love the racist you come in contact with; doing so is the first obligation of a white antiracist.
What anger worse or slower to abate then lovers love when it turns to hate.
Thus much indeed he was obliged to acknowledge - that he had been constant unconsciously, nay unintentionally; that he had meant to forget her, and believed it to be done. He had imagined himself indifferent, when he had only been angry; and he had been unjust to her merits, because he had been a sufferer from them.
Never make a companion equal to a brother.
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