We start making every child ambitious, and ambition means you cannot love; ambition is anti-love. Ambition needs fight, ambition needs struggle, ambition needs you to use others as a means.
The disobedient child is continuously condemned. The obedient child is, on the other hand, continuously praised. But have you heard of any obedient child having become world-famous in any dimension of creativity? Have you heard of any obedient child who has attained the Nobel prize for anything - literature, peace, science? The obedient child becomes just the common crowd. All that is added to existence is added by the disobedient.
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What this quote means
Disobedience often leads to creativity and greatness, while obedience can lead to conformity and mediocrity.
This quote highlights the tension between obedience and creativity, suggesting that while obedient individuals might receive praise and acceptance, it is often the disobedient ones who challenge the norms and contribute significantly to fields like literature, science, and peace. Rajneesh argues that greatness and innovation often emerge from those who dare to go against societal expectations, thus promoting a narrative that values uniqueness and independent thought over blind adherence to rules.
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Example use cases
This quote can be used in a motivational speech about the importance of thinking outside the box.
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