Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
Joyce Carol OatesRead
It is only through disruptions and confusion that we grow, jarred out of ourselves by the collision of someone else's private world with our own.
Interpretation
Growth often stems from experiencing disruptions and challenges that clash with our own perspectives.
This quote by Joyce Carol Oates suggests that personal growth occurs when we are faced with interruptions and challenges, particularly those that arise from interactions with others. The friction created by differing viewpoints forces us to reassess our beliefs and expand our understanding, leading to transformation and development.
In practice
This quote can be used in a motivational speech about overcoming challenges.
Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
I never really knew I wanted to 'be' a writer, but I was always writing from a very young age. It became more conscious as an ideal when I was in my twenties.
I'm drawn to write about upstate New York in the way in which a dreamer might have recurring dreams. My childhood and girlhood were spent in upstate New York, in the country north of Buffalo and West of Rochester. So this part of New York state is very familiar to me and, with its economic difficulties, has become emblematic of much of American life.
My writing is often a way of 'bearing witness' for others who lack the education and the opportunity to tell their own stories, so I hope that my writing won't be affected too much by my personal life.
The worst cynicism: a belief in luck.
. . . there is a wish in the heart of mankind to be distracted and confused. Truth is but one attraction, and not always the most powerful.
For every reader who dies today, a viewer is born, and we seem to be witnessing . . . the final tipping balance.
It is time for blacks to begin the shift from a wartime to a peacetime identity, from fighting for opportunity to the seizing of it.
What our Seventh Generation will have is a consequence of our actions today.
My moms always told me, 'How long you gonna play the victim?' I can say I'm mad and I hate everything, but nothing really changes until I change myself.
Civilization will end within 15 or 30 years unless immediate action is taken against problems facing mankind.
Nothing grows old-fashioned so fast as modernity.
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