What we want is to see the child in pursuit of knowledge, and not knowledge in pursuit of the child.
George Bernard ShawRead
Don't order any black things. Rejoice in his memory; and be radiant: leave grief to the children. Wear violet and purple. Be patient with the poor people who will snivel: they don't know; and they think they will live for ever, which makes death a division instead of a bond.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Celebrate life rather than focusing solely on death, and understand death as a connection rather than a separation.
In this quote, George Bernard Shaw encourages us to celebrate the memories of those who have passed away, rather than succumbing to grief. He suggests that wearing joyful colors like violet and purple symbolizes a celebration of life, and that we should practice patience with those who grieve, as their understanding of mortality is often clouded by their belief in their own invincibility. This perspective transforms the experience of death from one of division to one that fosters connection among the living.
Themes
DeathLifeGriefMemoryCelebration
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared at a memorial service to encourage attendees to celebrate the person's life.
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