A mediocre person tells. A good person explains. A superior person demonstrates. A great person inspires others to see for themselves.
Harvey MackayRead
Don't wait for a funeral to pay a compliment. You may not make it in time.
Interpretation
Appreciate others while they are alive; don't hold back kind words.
This quote emphasizes the importance of expressing appreciation and giving compliments to others while they can still hear them. It suggests that waiting until it's too late, such as at a funeral, is not only regrettable but also reinforces the idea that we should cherish our relationships and acknowledge the positive impact others have on our lives during their lifetime.
In practice
During a speech at a family gathering, to encourage others to express their love.
A mediocre person tells. A good person explains. A superior person demonstrates. A great person inspires others to see for themselves.
Employee loyalty begins with employer loyalty. Your employees should know that if they do the job they were hired to do with a reasonable amount of competence and efficiency, you will support them.
Most fears of rejection rest on the desire for approval from other people. Don't base your self-esteem on their opinions.
Don't equate activity with efficiency. You are paying your key people to see the big picture. Don't let them get bogged down in a lot of meaningless meetings and paper shuffling. Announce a Friday afternoon off once in a while. Cancel a Monday morning meeting or two. Tell the cast of characters you'd like them to spend the amount of time normally spent preparing for attending the meeting at their desks, simply thinking about an original idea.
It's only lonely at the top if you forget all the people you met along the way and fail to acknowledge their contributions to your success.
A dream is just a dream. A goal is a dream with a plan and a deadline.
We all leave one another. We die, we change - it's mostly change - we outgrow our best friends; but even if I do leave you, I will have passed on to you something of myself; you will be a different person because of knowing me; it's inescapable.
I had learned that there were substitutes for a mother who couldn't be a mother. You could find love with other people. You could find it in places you weren't even looking. But the original wound would never heal. I would carry it with me forever, and so would Tara. That was the trick . . . accepting it, going on with your life, knowing it was part of you.
This is not a story of heroic feats, or merely the narrative of a cynic; at least I do not mean it to be. It is a glimpse of two lives running parallel for a time, with similar hopes and convergent dreams.
It is not inertia alone that is responsible for human relationships repeating themselves from case to case, indescribably monotonous and unrenewed: it is shyness before any sort of new, unforeseeable experience with which one does not think oneself able to cope. But only someone who is ready for everything, who excludes nothing, not even the most enigmatical will live the relation to another as something alive.
A woman is the only thing I am afraid of that I know will not hurt me.
So many people supported me through my public life and I will never forget them.
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