It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote highlights the difference between wanting improved circumstances and the willingness to improve oneself.
Alain De Botton's quote points out a common human tendency: while many aspire for a better life characterized by external improvements such as wealth or status, few are committed to personal growth and becoming a better version of themselves. This reflects the idea that true fulfillment and quality of life stem not just from material success, but from nurturing one's character and values.
Themes
Better LifeSelf-ImprovementPersonal GrowthPhilosophy
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about personal development.
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