As a feminist of Egyptian and Muslim descent, my life's work has been informed by the belief that religion and culture must never be used to justify the subjugation of women.
Mona EltahawyRead
My family moved to Saudi Arabia from Glasgow when I was 15. Being a 15-year-old girl anywhere is difficult - all those hormones and everything - but being a 15-year-old girl in Saudi Arabia... it was like someone had turned the light off in my head. I could not get a grasp on why women were treated like this.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Adolescence is challenging, and moving to a new culture can amplify those struggles, especially regarding gender roles.
In this quote, Mona Eltahawy reflects on her difficult transition into adolescence while navigating a new cultural landscape in Saudi Arabia. The experience emphasizes the struggles of young women in restrictive societies, highlighting the confusion and frustration stemming from the contrasting expectations placed on them compared to their peers in more liberal environments.
Themes
FamilyCultureAdolescenceGenderIdentity
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about cultural differences in gender roles during a seminar on women's rights.
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