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We destroy ourselves when we stop feeling. If you bury your feelings within you, you become a graveyard.
Bernie Siegel
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Suppressing emotions leads to self-destruction and inner turmoil.

This quote emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and expressing one’s feelings. When individuals try to repress their emotions, they create an internal conflict that can lead to a sense of lifelessness, as if they have buried their feelings in a metaphorical graveyard, hindering their emotional well-being and personal growth.

Themes

FeelingsEmotionsSelf-DestructionWell-BeingExpression

In practice

Example use cases

During a mental health workshop, to illustrate the importance of emotional openness.

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