Crows pick out the eyes of the dead, when the dead have no longer need of them; but flatterers mar the soul of the living, and her eyes they blind.
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It was the first and most striking characteristic of Socrates never to become heated in discourse, never to utter an injurious or insulting word -- on the contrary, he persistently bore insult from others and thus put an end to the fray.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Socrates exemplified calmness and restraint in discussions, choosing to avoid insults and rage.
This quote highlights Socrates' remarkable ability to maintain composure during debates and conflicts. Rather than reciprocating insults or escalating tensions, he practiced patience and restraint, which not only demonstrated his character but also helped defuse conflicts, encouraging a more civil exchange of ideas. Epictetus admires this trait, suggesting that true wisdom lies in remaining unbothered by provocation and responding with dignity.
Themes
SocratesCalmnessRestraintDebateDiscourseInsultsWisdom
In practice
Example use cases
During a philosophy debate, one might use this quote to emphasize the importance of maintaining composure.
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