I'm trying to broaden the scope of positive psychology well beyond the smiley face. Happiness is just one-fifth of what human beings choose to do.
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The goal of a life free of dysphoria is a snare and a delusion. A better goal is of good commerce with the world. Authentic happiness, astonishingly, can occur even in the presence of authentic sadness.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The pursuit of an entirely pain-free life is unrealistic; true happiness can coexist with sadness through meaningful engagement with the world.
Martin Seligman's quote suggests that seeking a life devoid of discomfort or dysphoria is misguided. Instead, one should aim for a genuine connection with the world around them. Authentic happiness can arise even when faced with authentic sadness, emphasizing that life's complexities and a balanced acceptance of both joy and sorrow contribute to a richer and more meaningful existence.
Themes
HappinessSadnessLifeDysphoriaEngagement
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about resilience during difficult times.
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