We have to realize that we are as deeply afraid to live and to love as we are to die.
R. D. LaingRead
There are good reasons for being obedient, but being unable to be disobedient is not one of the best reasons.
Interpretation
Obedience can be justified, but blind compliance without the ability to question is not a virtue.
This quote by R. D. Laing emphasizes the importance of having the capacity to question authority and make independent choices. While there may be valid reasons to follow rules and directives, the inability to be disobedient suggests a lack of critical thinking and autonomy, which can lead to blindly following unjust or irrational orders.
In practice
This quote can be shared during a discussion about authority in society.
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Half-instructed confessors have done my soul great harm; for I could not always have such learned ones as I would have desired. They certainly did not wish to deceive me, but the fact was that they knew no better. Of something which was a venial sin, they said it was no sin, and out of a very grave mortal sin they made a venial sin. This has done me such harm, that my speaking here of so great an evil, as a warning to others, will be readily understood.
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