Depression is the flaw in love. There's no such thing as love without the anticipation of loss. And that specter of despair can be the engine of intimacy.
Andrew SolomonRead
I believe that words are strong, that they can overwhelm what we fear when fear seems more awful than life is good.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Words have the power to conquer our fears and challenges.
In this quote, Andrew Solomon emphasizes the potency of words in overcoming our fears. He suggests that when fear looms larger than the goodness life can offer, the strength of language can provide solace and courage, reminding us that there is more to life than what we dread.
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WordsFearStrengthLifeOvercome
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech to inspire students during graduation.
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