Depression is the flaw in love. There's no such thing as love without the anticipation of loss. And that specter of despair can be the engine of intimacy.
Andrew SolomonRead
Then I repeated these words to my spirits: 'Leave me be; give me peace; and let me do the work of my life. I will never forget you.' Something about that incantation was particularly appealing to me. 'I will never forget you'-- as though one had to address the pride of the spirits, as though one wanted them to feel good about being exorcised.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote reflects the desire for inner peace while acknowledging the significance of one's past experiences.
In this quote, Andrew Solomon expresses a yearning for tranquility and the freedom to pursue his life's work, while also recognizing the emotional weight of the spirits from his past. It suggests that achieving peace requires a delicate balance of acknowledging one's history and moving forward, indicating that the act of letting go does not erase memories; instead, it honors them while allowing for personal growth.
Themes
PeaceLife'S WorkMemoriesSpiritsGrowth
In practice
Example use cases
This quote could be shared during a motivational speech about pursuing one's passions.
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While people argue with one another about the specifics of Freud's work and blame him for the prejudices of his time, they overlook the fundamental truth of his writing, his grand humility: that we frequently do not know our own motivations in life and are prisoners to what we cannot understand. We can recognize only a small fragment of our own, and an even smaller fragment of anyone else's, impetus.
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